The Court System

Here is a sort of breakdown of how a child is brought to CPS.

1. Report is received, ER (Emergency Response)responds and the child is removed. A detention hearing is set. At the detention hearing, the child will either go home (with Family Maintenance) or be detained. If the child is detained, relative placements are the preference. The child remains in shelter (30 days) or foster care until relatives are approved if available. At this time, a child may be placed in a concurrent planning home. What that is is a foster home where the family prefers to just be a foster family and supports parent reunification, but is open to adopting if reunification is not possible.

2. So if the child is detained after the detention hearing, CDU (Court Dependency Unit) investigates. A Juris/Dispo Hearing is set for 30 days. At the J/D hearing, the child will either go home with Family Maintenance (FM), or be removed by the court and become a dependent. If the child is removed, most likely there there will be Family Reunification (FR) services provided and another court date will be set for 6 months to determine how services are going. FR services are for the birth parents/parent, and they could be anything from parenting classes or drug rehab. Services also include parent/child visits, and services for the child.

3. At the end of six months, the court will determine one of two things: a) additional services are not ordered and adoption becomes an immediate plan. b) if FR services are going well, the parents are offered six more months of services and a review hearing is set in another six months. But if the child is 3 yrs and younger, the parents are only given the
first 6 months, not an additional 6 months.

4. So if services are terminated, a 366.26 Hearing (Selection and Implementation Hearing) is set to terminate parental rights in 120 days. Parental rights must be severed to ALL parents, including unknown fathers (which is typically the case). The child must be in an adoptive home for parental rights to be severed.

As you can see, it's a lot of information to digest and figure out. It's extremely overwhelming and stressful at times, and very emotional. But I want this more than anything and am in for the long haul. There is a sort of spectrum of High Risk to Low Risk in regard to the place a child can be in the court system. Of course I want to be matched with a child that is Low Risk, meaning that Family Reunification is very low. But even with that, there will be some risk. My child will more than likely be placed with me before parental rights have been severed, and that scares me more than anything. But I trust my social workers and know that they not only have the child's best interest, but mine as well. And my social worker is not the child's social worker. The child will have their own SW.

So there ya go! It's a lot I know. And so much more to learn. I will try and update you all as much as I can. But honestly, it's tough keeping up with my blog! But I love all of your comments and words of support and encouragement! Please feel free to ask any questions you may have!

Thank you!!!

HT

Class Update

Hello!

I apologize for not blogging sooner. I know some of you have been anxious to hear how my classes are going, and so far they've been good, just a little overwhelming at times. There is so much to learn about the system and how everything works. At times, the information is just mind-boggling.

I am halfway done with the classes; April 5th is my last class. Here is some of what I have learned so far. 95% of all children in CPS have been exposed to drugs, whether in-utero or in their environment. Right now, and this changes frequently, most of the children that need homes are between the ages of 6-14. If you are willing to adopt a child in this age bracket, a child with special needs, or sibling sets, then your chances of adopting sooner are much higher. If you want an infant, your wait could be much longer. When I heard this I felt so deflated. Most people adopting, want a baby. But I've come to terms with that I'll be waiting awhile. I've waited 42 yrs to be a mommy. I can wait a few more.

I will explain the whole court process in my next post. It's quite extensive!

Getting Started!!!

Well, the day is almost here! My first adoption class is Thursday and I can hardly wait. My classes will be every Thursday night for 11 weeks, with the last class ending April 5th. Once that is complete, I think it's just a waiting game. Honestly, I'm not exactly sure what happens and when, but I'm sure I'll learn much more Thursday night. And once I do, I'll post on what I've learned!

Thank you to all of you that have supported, encouraged, and shared in my excitement! It means the world to me!

Love, Heidi

Adopting

It's been awhile since my last blog post and I wanted to update you all on the latest adoption news. I had my interview/home inspection with the State a few weeks ago. This is to obtain my certification for a foster/adoptive child to be placed in my home. And all went great and I was approved! The next step, which I'm currently in the middle of, is seeing a therapist. Part of the adoption process through the County is that you get an approval from a therapist stating that I have emotionally dealt with the infertility treatment being unsuccessful. So I've gone once and have one more session, and hopefully we'll be done and I can move on to the next step. And that next step will start sometime in January. I have 11 weeks of classes that I will need to take and once that is completed, I believe that is when the matching of a baby for me begins! January really can't get here fast enough! I'm so excited to meet my future child I can hardly stand the wait! Someone told me on my birthday this past week, that this is probably the last birthday as a non-parent. And that could very possibly be true! Next Halloween I could be taking my little one trick-or-treating, or going crazy overboard at Christmas! It's very exciting to think about it! I know my life is about to change in every possible way, and I can hardly wait!